rediscovering the crop and my sparkly piercings!
Wow this is the most disturbing bit of rape culture I’ve seen all day
This is so fucking repulsive this is seriously a fucking tip sheet for abusers holy fuck no
MAKE SURE THEY CRY AND THEN GIVE THEM ALCOHOL AFTERWARD SO THEY THINK YOU STILL LOVE THEM this is fucking disgusting what the FUCK
I think I’m gonna be sick
"Make sure it ends in tears." That’s not love.
"aftercare" is literally grooming your abused, emotionally traumatised partner into a state of comfort so that you can abuse them again
i hate this world
"Rape culture" "abuse" "trauma" ???????? ?? ? ?? ? ???? ? ?
Are yoU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!!? This is a guideline for couples who ENJOY spanking in their relationship, for a wide variety of reasons, like the fact that it’s a KINK!!!!!! IT’S CONSIDERED A PART OF BDSM CULTURE!!!! Notice the very first image says "CONSENTING ADULTS ONLY!!!" THIS IS NOT ABUSE, THIS IS FETISH!!!
THE “AFTERCARE” THAT YOU ARE BITCHING ABOUT IS A **N.E.C.E.S.S.A.R.Y.** PART OF ANY SCENES OR PLAYS THAT A COUPLE PARTICIPATES IN!!! IT’S LITERALLY WHERE YOU TAKE CARE OF AND LOVE ON YOUR PARTNER THAT WAS PUT THROUGH ANY STRESSING ACTS DURING THE SCENE!!!! IT’S A VERY IMPORTANT THING THAT EVERY HEALTHY BDSM RELATED SCENARIO SHOULD END IN!!!!!!!!
OH MY GOD, CAN SOMEONE THAT HAS A MORE EXTENSIVE KNOWLEDGE OF ALL THIS EXPLAIN IT IN MORE DETAIL FOR ME PLEASE?? I AM TOO ANGRY TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO IT!!!!!!
It’s bondage. And it made me horny. Nuff said.
I’m going to drop some heavy stuff on you right now. (If you follow my blog then you know all this, but if you don’t then hope you find this and become enlightened.)
As stated this is an informative and safety oriented post about a consensual act between two adults. For some people this is a turn on, a legitimate part of their sex lives and something they need to feel aroused. BDSM is a safe, sane and consensual part of the pantheon of sexual interaction.
Now, some food for thought. For myself, I need this. I’m a masochist. This is not an option for me. I hold onto emotions and I its actually led to breakdowns and an emotionally compromised place. Spankings can be good. They allow the receiver to let go in a completely safe and controlled environment.
So the next time you go on espousing the idea of Rape Culture, learn what is actually Rape Culture and what is normal human sexuality. There are more then a few of us out there, as witnessed by the hilarious popularity of 50 Shades of Grey (which is a problematic book in itself leading to plenty misconceptions about the BDSM community).